A grandparent in Queensland can play a vital role in a child’s life, especially during family separation or conflict. Australian family law recognises the importance of ongoing family relationships, including grandparents and others who are significant to a child. Many grandparents are surprised to learn what options exist when they are cut off from their grandchildren. This guide explains how family law works in QLD and what steps a grandparent can take to maintain a meaningful relationship with a grandchild. If you are unsure where you stand, early legal advice can make a real difference.
The role of a grandparent under family law in Queensland
Under family law, a grandparent is recognised as a person who may be important to a child’s welfare and development. The family law act 1975 allows people other than parents, including grandparents and other family members, to be involved in parenting arrangements where it supports the child’s best interest. This means that a grandparent does not need to be a parent to have standing in family law matters.
Australian family law recognises that children benefit from strong connections with their extended family. The law recognises the importance of cultural ties, emotional support, and stability that a grandparent can provide to a grandchild. However, this does not create an automatic right to time or decision-making. Grandparents do not have automatic entitlement, and each situation depends on individual family dynamics.
In practice, this means a family law court looks at how a relationship with their grandparents supports a child’s wellbeing. Where a grandparent has been actively involved in the lives of their grandchildren, this history can be relevant when disputes arise.
When a grandparent has the right to see a grandchild
A common concern is whether grandparents have rights to see a grandchild. There is no automatic right to contact, but grandparents have the right to ask the court to consider their involvement. The concept of rights in Queensland focuses on the child, not the adult, and the court assesses what arrangements best support the child’s needs.
A grandparent may seek visitation rights or other forms of contact with their grandchild or grandchildren. This can include spending time together, phone calls, or other ways to communicate with their grandchildren. Where parents and grandparents are in dispute, the history of care, the bond between grandparents and the child, and any risks such as family violence are taken into account.
Importantly, grandparents must respect the role of parents while still advocating for a meaningful relationship. The law balances parent’s rights with the benefit of maintaining family relationships.
Parenting orders and how grandparents can apply
A grandparent who cannot reach agreement with parents may apply for parenting orders. Grandparents can apply for parenting orders through the federal circuit and family court when informal arrangements break down. A parenting order can cover where a child lives, time spent with a grandparent, and other parenting responsibilities.
Grandparents can apply in their own right, and grandparents may also apply for parental responsibility in limited circumstances, such as when they provide the primary care of their grandchildren. The court for orders will consider evidence about the care of their grandchildren, past involvement, and the child’s stability.
Key points about a parenting order include:
- It is made under the family law act 1975.
- The family court of Australia and the federal circuit and family court deal with these applications.
- The court focuses on the best interest of the child, not adult conflict.
- A family lawyer can explain whether you should apply to the court and what type of order may be appropriate.
Resolving issues through family dispute resolution
Before starting legal action, most grandparents are required to attempt family dispute resolution. This process encourages parents and grandparents to resolve issues cooperatively, with the help of a family dispute resolution practitioner. Services such as Relationships Australia or the family relationship advice line can assist.
Family dispute resolution can be less stressful and more cost-effective than court. It allows grandparents and the parents to discuss contact with their grandchild in a structured environment. In some cases, this process helps repair family relationships and avoids further conflict.
Important Note (From 6 May 2024): The principles applied by courts in family dispute resolution and in court proceedings now reflect the new legislative framework for assessing a child’s best interests. This means that when discussing arrangements with a family dispute resolution practitioner, the focus will be on the factors outlined below, with particular emphasis on the child’s safety and wellbeing.
There are exceptions where family violence or urgency is present. In those situations, a family law court unless satisfied that mediation is unsafe may allow a grandparent to proceed directly to court.
What the court considers to be the best interest of the child
When a matter reaches court, the guiding principle is always the child’s best interest. A family court judge may decide whether grandparents should spend time with a child based on several factors.
IMPORTANT LEGISLATIVE UPDATE (6 May 2024): Major changes to the Family Law Act 1975 came into effect on 6 May 2024 that fundamentally altered how courts assess a child’s best interests. Prior to this date, the court previously considered 16 factors grouped into “primary” and “secondary” considerations. The law now requires courts to consider seven core considerations, which are not hierarchical and must each be assessed as relevant to the child’s individual circumstances.
The seven current considerations the court must now consider are:
1. Safety of the child and persons caring for the child – Particularly important is the promotion of arrangements that protect the child and the person who has care of the child from family violence, abuse, neglect or other harm. The court must mandatorily consider any history of family violence, abuse or neglect involving the child or a person caring for the child, and any family violence order that applies or has applied to the child or a member of the child’s family.
2. The child’s views and preferences – The court will consider what the child expresses about their own wishes, with weight given according to the child’s age and maturity.
3. The child’s developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs – The focus is now solely on the child’s needs, rather than also considering the needs of parents (which was required under the previous law).
4. The capacity of each person with or proposed to have parental responsibility – The court assesses whether each person (whether a parent, grandparent, or other caregiver) has the capacity to meet the child’s developmental, psychological, emotional and cultural needs.
5. The benefit of the child maintaining relationships – The court considers the benefit to the child of being able to have a relationship with the child’s parents and other people who are significant to the child, where it is safe to do so. Importantly, the term “meaningful relationship” has been removed from the legislation, and the emphasis is now on whether maintaining relationships is safe and in the child’s best interests.
6. Anything else relevant to the particular circumstances – This provision allows the court broad discretion to consider any additional factors appropriate to the determination of a child’s best interests.
7. Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander considerations – If the child is Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander, the court must also consider the child’s right to enjoy Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander culture, including connection with family, community, culture, country and language, and the impact of any proposed parenting order on that right.
Key Impact for Grandparents: A significant change is that safety considerations now stand as a core factor with mandatory consideration of family violence history. While long-standing relationships with grandparents may still be valued, they can be limited or restricted if there are any safety concerns. This means that documenting your involvement in your grandchild’s life and ensuring there are no safety issues are critical to your application.
These commonly include:
- The child’s relationship with their grandparent and other relatives.
- The benefit of maintaining a relationship (where it is safe to do so).
- Any risk of harm, including exposure to family violence.
- The views of the child, depending on age and maturity.
The court recognises that grandparents and grandchildren often share a unique bond. Where a grandparent has provided stability, accommodation, or ongoing care, this can strongly support an application.
When this may not be the right fit
There are situations where pursuing court action may not be appropriate. If conflict is minimal and communication is improving, informal arrangements may be better for family relationships. Where safety concerns exist, especially involving family violence, alternative protections may be needed before contact is considered.
A grandparent should carefully weigh the emotional and financial impact of court proceedings. This is a complex area of law, and not every dispute requires formal orders.
How to judge if you need to act now or later
Timing matters in family law. If a grandparent has been recently cut off from their grandchildren, early steps can help preserve the relationship. Acting sooner can make it easier to show an existing bond and regular contact with their grandchild.
Since the 6 May 2024 legislative changes, timing is especially important. The new framework places stronger emphasis on the child’s safety and the history of your involvement. Documented evidence of your active role in your grandchild’s life—combined with a clear absence of any safety concerns—will be increasingly important if your case reaches court or family dispute resolution.
On the other hand, if arrangements are inconsistent but ongoing, negotiation or mediation may be sufficient. Understanding your legal rights and options early allows you to make informed decisions about whether to apply for parenting orders now or later. Early legal advice can also help you understand how the new best interests considerations apply to your specific family circumstances.
Next steps and getting legal advice
Every family is different, and grandparents’ rights in Queensland depend on specific circumstances. Seeking tailored legal advice helps you understand your rights and responsibilities and the likely outcomes. An experienced family law firm can guide you through family law matters, from family dispute resolution to applying in the family law court.
If you are a grandparent in QLD concerned about your relationship with your grandchildren in Australia, Queensland Family Law Practice can help you understand your legal position and plan practical next steps. Reach out to speak with a family lawyer and get clear advice about protecting your relationship with your grandchild.





